You're at the park, watching your 6-year-old play with other children. As you observe their interactions, a nagging worry creeps in. Your child seems to struggle to explain the rules of a simple game to their playmates. Earlier at dinner, when you asked about their day at school, their response was vague and disjointed. You find yourself wondering: Is this normal? Should my child be communicating more clearly by now?
As a speech-language pathologist (SLP), I often hear these concerns from parents of school-age children. If you're asking yourself these questions, you're not alone. Let's explore what typical speech and language development looks like for 5-7 year olds, and when it might be time to seek help.
In this article we will discuss:
Understanding Speech and Language Development in School-Age Children
The Impact of Speech and Language Delays in School-Age Children
The Benefits of Speech Therapy for School-Age Children
What to Expect from Speech Therapy
How Better Speech Can Help
Getting Started with Speech Therapy
Understanding Speech and Language Development in School-Age Children
Speech and language skills continue to develop rapidly during the early school years. While every child progresses at their own pace, there are certain milestones to watch for. Let's break it down by age:
*The following are age-appropriate speech and language milestones based on established developmental norms, which align with information from the American Speech-Language-Hearing Association (ASHA).
At 5 Years Old: By their fifth birthday, most children:
Use complex sentences with proper grammar
Tell detailed stories that stay on topic
Answer "why" questions with reasonable explanations
Understand and use time concepts (yesterday, today, tomorrow)
Follow three-step directions easily
Use imaginative language in play
Pronounce most speech sounds correctly
Engage in long conversations
Use language to express emotions and opinions
Understand and use basic concepts of quantity (few, many, some)
Red flags at this age might include:
Difficulty being understood by unfamiliar listeners
Struggles with retelling simple stories or events from their day
Limited use of complex sentences
Difficulty understanding or using abstract language
Trouble following multi-step directions
Avoidance of social interactions or group play
Frustration when trying to communicate
Difficulty with basic literacy skills (recognizing letters, rhyming)
Problems with turn-taking in conversations
Persistent pronunciation errors for their age
At 6 Years Old: Six-year-olds typically:
Speak clearly and fluently about a wide range of topics
Use language to express feelings and ideas creatively
Understand and use a variety of sentence structures
Follow complex, multi-step directions
Ask and answer complex questions
Use language effectively in different social situations
Begin to understand and use figurative language
Show interest in word meanings and origins
Engage in detailed, imaginative play with peers
Demonstrate emerging reading and writing skills
Concerns at this age might include:
Difficulty explaining ideas or events in a logical sequence
Struggles with understanding or using age-appropriate vocabulary
Problems with speech clarity, especially with longer words
Difficulty following classroom instructions
Reluctance to participate in class discussions or answer questions
Trouble making or maintaining friendships due to communication issues
Frustration or behavior problems related to communication difficulties
Struggles with early reading or writing tasks
Difficulty understanding or telling jokes
Problems with phonological awareness skills (identifying sounds in words)
At 7 Years Old: By seven, most children:
Communicate clearly and effectively in most situations
Use complex and compound sentences regularly
Understand and use figurative language (similes, metaphors)
Follow lengthy, complex directions without difficulty
Tell elaborate stories with a clear beginning, middle, and end
Use language creatively in play and social interactions
Demonstrate strong literacy skills (reading, writing, spelling)
Understand and use a wide range of academic vocabulary
Engage in abstract thinking and problem-solving
Adjust language use for different listeners and situations
Red flags at seven might include:
Ongoing difficulty with speech clarity or fluency
Struggles with understanding or using age-appropriate grammar
Limited vocabulary compared to peers
Difficulty comprehending or producing complex sentences
Problems with reading comprehension or written expression
Struggles with social communication or making friends
Difficulty understanding or using non-literal language
Persistent problems with phonological awareness or early literacy skills
Avoidance of speaking situations or school participation
Teacher concerns about language skills or academic performance
Seek professional support today to improve your little one communication
The Impact of Speech and Language Delays in School-Age Children
You might wonder, "Is it really a big deal if my child is a bit behind in these areas?" The truth is, strong communication skills are crucial for success in school and beyond. Language delays at this age can affect:
Academic performance across all subjects
Social relationships and self-esteem
Behavior and emotional regulation
Future career prospects
Early intervention is key. Research shows that addressing speech and language issues during these formative years can significantly improve outcomes.
The Benefits of Speech Therapy for School-Age Children
Speech therapy can help your child in numerous ways:
Improve overall communication skills
Enhance reading and writing abilities
Boost confidence in social situations
Develop problem-solving and critical thinking skills
Improve classroom participation and academic performance
What to Expect from Speech Therapy
If you decide to pursue speech therapy, here's what you can expect:
Comprehensive Evaluation: An SLP will assess your child's speech, language, and communication skills.
Personalized Treatment Plan: Based on the evaluation, the SLP will create a tailored plan to address your child's specific needs.
Regular Sessions: Therapy usually involves weekly sessions, either individual or in small groups.
Home and School Carryover: You'll receive activities to reinforce skills at home, and the SLP may collaborate with your child's teacher.
Progress Monitoring: The SLP will regularly assess your child's progress and adjust the treatment plan as needed.
How Better Speech Can Help
At Better Speech, we understand the unique challenges of supporting school-age children's communication development. Our mission is to provide effective, affordable, and convenient speech therapy services online, empowering every child to communicate to the best of their ability.
Our online platform offers:
High-quality speech therapy from certified SLPs
Flexible scheduling to fit your family's busy lifestyle
Comfortable sessions in your own home
Personalized treatment plans
Regular progress updates and parent education
Remember, seeking help is a proactive step towards your child's success. If you're concerned about your child's speech or language development, don't hesitate to reach out. Early intervention can make a world of difference.
Getting Started with Speech Therapy
If you're unsure whether your child needs speech therapy, consider these steps:
Keep a communication diary: Note your child's speech patterns, new words, and any concerns.
Talk to your child's teacher: They can provide valuable insights about classroom performance.
Consult with your pediatrician: They can provide guidance and referrals if needed.
Get a professional evaluation: A speech-language pathologist can provide a comprehensive assessment.
Trust your instincts: You know your child best. If something doesn't feel right, it's okay to seek help.
At Better Speech, we're here to support you and your child every step of the way. Our team of experienced SLPs is ready to answer your questions and provide the care your child needs to thrive.
Don't let another day go by wondering if your child needs help. Reach out to Better Speech today for a free consultation. Together, we can unlock your child's full communication potential and set them on the path to success in school and beyond.
Remember, every child's journey is unique. With the right support, your child can overcome any communication challenge and find their voice. You're not alone in this journey – we're here to help. We are a team of over 250 licensed speech-language pathologists, you can seek the help you need from the comfort of your own home. To get started, contact our team at Better Speech today!
Frequently Asked Questions
What are common signs that my child might need speech therapy?
Common signs include difficulty pronouncing words clearly, trouble understanding or following directions, delayed speech compared to peers, difficulty forming sentences, or struggles with social communication. If your child is not meeting speech milestones for their age, it may be beneficial to consult with a speech therapist.
How can I determine if my child’s speech issues are a concern?
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About the Author
Lenora Edwards
I am ASHA Board Certified Speech Language Pathologist and Chief Knowledge Officer with Better Speech. Since obtaining my CCC’s in 2010, I have worked with individuals of all ages from little ones who are learning to understand and express themselves to adults who want to improve their speaking skills and become a more fluent and effective communicator. I love to teach and educate others, in my spare time I like reading, cooking and traveling!